EXTRAORDINARY PURPOSE PODCAST
Episode Title: What Every Parent Should Know: Lessons We’ve Learned from Coaching Teens and Young Adults
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INTRO
Erin: Welcome to the Extraordinary Purpose Podcast with Erin and Chris. I’m Erin, and today… I’m introducing the handsome, magnetic, motivational, and inspiring Chris!
Chris: (laughs) I’m blushing. I think I’m out of a job — you did great!
Erin: It’s about time I went first!
Chris: I love it. Honestly, your softer, calmer tone might land even better with our listeners. I tend to come in loud and passionate — but people love both!
Erin: That’s why this works. We balance each other out.
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WHO WE ARE
Chris: For those new here, we’re life coaches for teens and young adults. We’ve coached thousands of incredible young people over the years, and every week we sit down to talk about what we’re learning — and what parents need to hear most.
Erin: We love this work because it’s not just about helping young adults find direction. It’s about helping parents understand the phase their kids are in — and how to support them through it with less stress and more connection.
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WHY TEENS TUNE PARENTS OUT
Erin: One of the things we hear from parents every single day is, “They don’t want my advice. They won’t take my guidance. They act like they don’t care what I think.”
Chris: And we get it — we’re parents too. Between us, we have four kids — two teens and two young adults — and we feel those same frustrations.
Erin: Here’s the truth though — it’s completely normal. Around age 16, sometimes earlier, teens start craving independence and autonomy. It’s part of their development. They’re trying to figure out who they are *outside* of us.
Chris: And that can be really tough as a parent. You’ve raised them, guided them, poured into them — and suddenly they don’t want to hear a thing you say.
Erin: But it’s not personal. They still love you deeply. They just need space to explore their identity, their passions, and their own voice.
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THE POWER OF ENVIRONMENT
Chris: What we’ve seen over and over again in coaching is that environment changes everything. When young adults step into a space without distraction, where they feel supported and seen — that’s when they start to connect with themselves again.
Erin: Exactly. At home, school, or online, they’re constantly distracted — by phones, social media, friends, and pressure. There’s no stillness. But when they slow down and start reflecting, they naturally become more motivated and focused.
Chris: That’s the magic of coaching. We help them see who they are and what they want — and once they see it for themselves, the motivation becomes intrinsic. They start showing up because *they* want to, not because someone told them to.
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WHAT PARENTS CAN DO
Erin: As parents, our love often comes across as lecturing — because we care so much. But sometimes that loving advice feels like pressure.
Chris: Exactly. Instead of pushing, try creating space. Ask questions like, “What feels important to you right now?” or “What are you curious about?” It shifts the dynamic from control to connection.
Erin: When parents can let go of the fear that they’re “failing” or “losing control,” something powerful happens — the relationship transforms. You move from resistance to trust.
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A MESSAGE OF HOPE
Chris: We want to remind every parent listening — your teen or young adult *does* want what you want. They want to be happy, confident, and fulfilled. They’re just figuring out how to get there in their own way.
Erin: And if you’ve ever felt like you’re failing because your child needs help from someone else — you’re not. That’s actually wisdom. It means you’re giving them what they need most right now — another safe, supportive voice to help them grow.
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CONCLUSION
Erin: So, if you’re feeling stuck or unsure how to reach your teen or young adult, know that you’re not alone.
Chris: And if you’d like to learn more about how we help teens and young adults build confidence, motivation, and purpose — you can book a free discovery call at www.myextraordinarypurpose.com.
Erin: Thanks for listening, everyone. Remember, your kids will come back around. Give them space, stay connected, and keep believing in them.
Chris: We’ll see you next time on the Extraordinary Purpose Podcast.
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