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Teen Life Coaching with Erin & Chris – Empowering Your Teen to go From Stuck and Struggling to Confident, Motivated, and Thriving 

 

If your teen is feeling lost, un-motivated or shut down – Our coaching will help them discover confidence, clarity and a future they are excited about

 

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You are not alone -- how we help teenagers reconnect, thrive and discover who they truly are

 

Parenting a teenager in today's world can be quite overwhelming. The pressures of social media, gaming, anxiety, peer pressure, etc. can cause you to wonder if your teen is slipping further away from you, their confidence, and their potential future.

It does not have to remain that way.

At Extraordinary Purpose, our teenage life coaching program is not just focused on helping your teen cope with challenges -- we want to help your teen live an extraordinary life. Through compassionate guidance, a structured process, and a supportive environment, we will assist your teen in:  

  • Identifying their core values, passions and strengths
  • Developing confidence and building healthy relationships
  • Gaining clarity about their personal goals and aspirations
  • And moving into being their absolute best self and potential 

This is not just about providing support. This is about transforming your teen back to their spark, allowing them to reconnect with the things that matter most and begin building momentum toward their purpose and joy while we support and guide both of you throughout the journey.

Smiling and confident young woman who completed the Extraordinary Purpose Life Coaching program for teens, now living with passion, purpose, and a positive lifestyle

 

Why The Best Parenting Is Not Enough —

And What A Teen Life Coach May Be Able To Offer

 

If you are reading this, it is likely that you are a parent of a teenager who you love more than anything, and lately, everything has been... harder.

You have watched your teen lose interest and have difficulty completing tasks.

It appears that your teens self-confidence has decreased and it seems as though you cannot connect with your teen.

Your teen is constantly being pulled in many different directions (social media, friends, distractions) and often avoids conversations about important topics or will shut down completely when you try to talk.

You've attempted to use encouragement, rules, consequences, possibly even therapy; and nothing has worked.

You are not alone. And you do not have to go through this alone.

 

een boy looking down in despair, searching for a supportive environment to rediscover his motivation, passion, and sense of purpose in life.
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Teen Coaching through The 3 Pillars of Extraordinary Purpose

Extraordinary purpose coaching is much more than "fixing" a teenager's behavior - it provides teenagers an opportunity to find out who they truly are, build confidence in their lives and develop a bright and empowered future. 

Pillar 1: Discovering Who They Are

 

Teens often struggle to understand what makes them unique. We guide them to uncover their passions, talents, values, and goals—their one-of-a-kind identity. This builds confidence and motivation, helping them see their potential and the kind of future they can create.

Pillar 2: Creating a Vision for Their Future


Instead of feeling lost or unmotivated, your teen will begin to imagine a future that excites them. Together, we create meaningful goals in areas like school, friendships, personal growth, and health. This clear vision helps them stay motivated and make better choices every day

 

Pillar 3: Becoming Their Empowered Self

 

We help teens step into their Empowered Identity—the best version of themselves who shows up with confidence, focus, and motivation. With the right tools, rituals, and strategies, they learn to overcome distractions, improve relationships, earn better grades, and take consistent action toward their goals.

A Balanced Coaching Approach That Inspires Growth and Confidence

Our coaching is uniquely designed for both young men and young women. Chris empowers young men to build confidence, resilience, and purpose, while Erin helps young women find their voice, strength, and passion. Together, we help teens grow into confident, motivated young adults ready to thrive in every area of life.

Do not wait another day — give your teenager the support, confidence and direction she/he needs to thrive.

Erin and Chris, life coaches for teens and young adults at Extraordinary Purpose, ready to support parents and families in helping their child find confidence and purpose

Visualize your teen a few months from now

  • Your teen will be standing taller and smiling more, and believe in themselves.
  • You will see your teen grounded by her/his daily routine and ritual behaviors which will help build her/his confidence.
  • Your teen will be better able to manage their emotions and stay organized and focused on what really matters to them.
  • She/He will have moved past self-doubt and the need for comparison.
  • Your teen will be curious and open-minded and willing to pursue opportunities.
  • She/He will make friends who uplift them and who also share her/his value system.

You will notice this at home as well:

  • The conversations between you and your teen will be smoother and there will be less negative energy surrounding them.
  • Her/Him choosing to do things will be more thoughtful and will align with her/his personal values.
  • She/He will be proud of who she/he is and excited about who she/he is becoming.

This is exactly what happens when your teen reconnects with who she/he truly is — and finds her/his confidence, motivation and purpose.

 What Your Teen Will Experience in Our Life Coaching Program

 

All aspects of our program are designed to provide the support, structure, and inspiration that your teen requires to find his/her true self. From one-on-one discussions to weekly small group check-ins and support from the family, our programs offer all components required for your teen to develop the motivation, confidence, and desire to create the future he/she wants to live.

→ One-on-One Coaching — Their Private Time

A time for your teen to breathe. This private time provides an opportunity for your teen to be acknowledged, heard and supported without criticism or judgment, while your teen explores his/her identity and what he/she really wants from life.

→ Weekly Small Group Check-Ins — Reset and Re-Focus

Each week, your teen connects with other teenagers who understand and relate to similar experiences and feelings. They collaborate to celebrate their successes, discuss their difficulties and create new goals for each upcoming week. It's about more than just being accountable – it's about being a member of a community.

→ The Extraordinary Purpose Course — Life Changing Tools and Mindset

This hands on course offers your teen the mental approach, framework, and tools needed to thrive. As a result, your teen develops the confidence, direction, and motivation needed to succeed long-term.

→ Unlimited Check-Ins — Real Help, Whenever You Need It

Your teen will never be left to deal with the complexities of life alone. If your teen ever needs help, whether it's advice, encouragement, or an outside perspective, they can contact us anytime via text message.

→ Partnering With Parents — Supporting Both Sides

We're right there with you too, supporting you as well, so you'll always know how your teen is progressing. We help foster increased levels of trust, open communication, and closeness between you and your teen within the home.

→ Mentoring Side by Side — Mentors Who Believe In Your Teen's Greatness

We arrive each week as mentors who believe in your teen's potential and help your teen to see that same potential in him/herself. We assist your teen in developing into the individual that they were destined to become.

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Parents Recent Experiences with Extraordinary Purpose Life Coaching for Teens

"Initially when I met with Erin and Chris, my daughter's self-confidence was at an all time low. My daughter had trouble making friends and our relationship at home felt disconnected.

Extraordinary Purpose Teen Coaching Program changed every thing. She once again believed in herself, made new friends, and began sharing things with us again.

As a mom, it has been amazing to see her build her confidence and also have our connection return. This program has really been a blessing for our entire family."

— Jennifer, Mom of Isabella

 

 

"Prior to coaching my teenager was extremely unmotivated and would be constantly distracted and we could never seem to reach him regardless of what we tried. Working with Extraordinary Purpose was a total game changer. He now is much more confident, focused and even talks to us now! He is setting his own goals, meeting those goals and you can just tell by how he carries himself there is a big difference in how he is doing since working with this program.

If your are a parent wondering if a life coach for teenagers will make a difference - let me tell you they do. This program has helped my son connect with himself again and believe in himself again."

- Stacey, Mom of Kevin

 

Teen Testimonial: Meet Izzie - Age 17

 

"Before I started the Extraordinary Purpose life coaching program, I was hooked on my phone and social media. I spent endless hours scrolling and felt stuck, unmotivated, and totally lost. Erin and Chris helped me learn how to navigate my distractions and become more present so that I could build new habits—starting with a morning routine. I now begin each day with goals and a plan to achieve them. The program helped me see who I really am, what's important to me, and what kind of life I want to create after high school. I now feel more focused, confident, and excited about my future"
— Izzie M. 

Teen Testimonial: Meet Matteo - Age 16

 

"Being a part of this amazing program has been life changing. Erin and Chris are two amazing people who have truly had an influence on my life. They both put in so much work for us young adults to have a great life and teach us great habits to apply to our lives. You can feel the passion they have for this through all the sessions. In the 1 on 1 sessions, I have learned so much about myself and many new habits I can use on a daily basis. I always look forward to those calls every single week as I know I am going to learn something new. Every Sunday, I always have a great time in the group sessions, learning many new things and reflecting on my week. Huge shoutout to Erin and Chris, they are truly great people who will listen to anything you have to say and help you. I think this program is great and I'm looking forward to seeing what the future brings with this coaching."

Teen Testimonial: Meet Kai - Age 17 

 

"I went through the Extraordinary Purpose Coaching Program a few months ago and I’m so happy my mom talked me into it. At first, I didn’t think I needed life coaching, but eventually I realized it wasn’t about needing it, I began to love learning more about myself, gaining more confidence on the court with basketball, and getting clear about what I wanted for my future. Chris and Erin really pushed me and helped me become more responsible in all areas of my life. Before working with them I sort of thought I already knew everything, and now I know there is so much more to learn! Before I was anxious about what my future would look like, now I’m excited knowing I can create a future that is meaningful to me. I plan to continue my coaching with them for a while!" - Kai S.

Parent Testimonial: Meet Ellie - Age 15

 

"My husband and I were recommended to Erin and Chris through a parent support Facebook group. Despite being an amazing girl, our daughter (Ellie) was struggling with making friends at her new school, depression, and low self-confidence. When we first met Erin and Chris we could immediately tell they cared deeply about helping not just Ellie (but us as well). They spoke about specific ways in which they were going to help Ellie discover and see her true potential, and create an identity that would help her change the outcome of her days and life. After the very first week, Ellie had already changed-up her morning routine, and was beginning to implement some of the strategies that she was learning. We must also add that she loves the Teen coaching group that she is a part of. She typically leaves it feeling more motivated, accountable, and always has a plan written down for the week ahead. Needless to say, we couldn't more happy with the results, and consider Extraordinary Purpose Life Coaching for Teens (and Erin and Chris) a big part of our team moving forward.  - Desiree L.  

Parent Testimonial: Meet Jasper - Age 17 

 
"Our 17 year old son Jasper was diagnosed with ADHD when he was twelve and at sixteen his symptoms seemed to be getting worse. This significantly affected his confidence, ability to focus on one thing at a time, his grades in school, and our relationship with him was falling apart. I felt like all I did was remind him of what he was doing wrong. We discovered the Extraordinary Purpose Coaching  Program for Teens through a friend of ours who’s daughter had worked with Chris and Erin. Jasper completely came to life about three weeks into the program. He particularly seemed to enjoy the group experience and being around many young adults going through similar challenges, and having similar goals. As parents we will add that we were able to observe the many habits that Jasper began to implement, including his sleep schedule and morning routine - which made us so happy! Jasper also learned how to navigate his ADHD and learn how and where to overcome distractions and focus. Jasper also became really close with one of his assigned mentors during the program, who he is now close friends with and stays in touch with about their personal development. We are so glad that we found Erin and Chris and consider them to be resources not just for Jasper - but for our entire family!" - Marcy C.

Teen Testimonial: Meet Mhina -  Age 16

 

"I’m a teenager who started this course/program back in March of this year. I started this my junior year while I was in the transition of transferring schools right before my senior year. This course has helped me significantly with getting in touch with not only my higher future self and who I’m destined to be, but also with my spiritual self. The one on one engagement with the coaches and instructors really encourages you to not only get out of your comfort zone but do a deep analyzation of your internal and external environments to help motivate your self and push yourself towards future success. The course helps with meditation, motivation, perseverance, organization, mind focus, and present focus. I would 10/10 recommend seeing and working with Chris and Erin in the future due to their kindness, patience and professionalism." - Mhina J. 

Parent Testimonial: Meet Sophie - Age 15

 

 "My daughter and I were always close, but as she developed into adolescence we began to grow apart, and I just couldn’t reach her like I used to. She was losing the confidence she always had, her grades were slipping, and she just seemed down a lot of the time. I’m so grateful Chris and Erin helped Sophie create a vision and direction for what she wanted life to look and feel like after high school. From that vision she created goals for herself, and learning to limit her distractions she was able to really work towards them. The main thing is that Sophie was excited again, almost childlike, laughing and expressing herself with confidence, and because she worked on her relationships with Chris and Erin, she and I bonded again in a new way."  - Elizabeth M. 

Parent Testimonial: Meet Ryan - Age 17

 

 "My husband and I are so happy to have found the Extraordinary Purpose Coaching Program for Teens, because what a positive difference it has made in our son's life (and ours for that matter). We reached out to Erin and Chris about 4 months ago because Ryan was really struggling. He had no energy or motivation and his emotional wellbeing was suffering. He had very unhealthy habits (he was vaping and addicted to his phone), and spending all of his time with his friends. Through the 1:1 and group coaching Ryan learned a lot more about himself, started feeling better about himself and his future, began reconnecting with some of his interests, and began implementing positive habits. We can honestly say that Ryan is now much more motivated, has set some goals for himself, and is more confident in himself, which makes us parents extremely happy." - Mary and Steven L. 

Parent Testimonial: Meet Stefan - Age 16

 

 "When we were looking for some guidance and support for our son, the Extraordinary Purpose Life Coaching Program for Teens jumped off the page because of how closely it resonated with the things Stefan was struggling with. He had become constantly distracted by his phone and friends, lost all motivation, and a once confident kid now had no self-esteem. As a result his grades were suffering, he was making bad choices, and his relationship with us was suffering. After about 1-month in the program, Stefan began to come to life. He was finding his interest in things again, learning new habits, and getting clear on some of his short-term goals. He absolutely loved working with Erin and Chris, as well as being a part of the Teen group. What an amazing program, coaches, and environment - we are so happy we found them!"  - Mary P. 

Parent Testimonial: Meet Luke - Age 14

 "We were referred to Erin and Chris from an online parent  group that I am in. Our son Luke was showing signs of anxiety and depression, and was losing interest in school, which was causing his grades to suffer. Additionally he was completely addicted to his phone and video games, often isolating himself from his parents (and sister), and no longer doing things that he enjoys (like sports and music). We are very happy to report that the Extraordinary Purpose Program for Teens helped Luke learn some very effective habits, put some goals in place, and begin to do things again that he enjoyed. Overall his motivation and confidence is much higher which has a made a huge difference. Highly recommend this for any Teenager trying to find their way." -  Beth B.     

Teen Testimonial: Meet William -  Age 15

 

“I am really enjoying the Extraordinary Purpose Coaching for Teens program. My parents signed me up a few months ago because I struggle with stress and anxiety with school, making friends, and not having confidence. At first I didn’t want to do it, but after talking with Chris, he helped me see how coaching could help me accomplish my goals. My favorite part of coaching has been all of the rituals that I have learned, as well as the Sunday group meetings, which always help me have a productive week. I am much more focused and productive now, and my confidence has been getting so much better. I also have some ideas for my future which I am really excited about. I think this is a good idea for any teen trying to figure things out.” - William R. 

Teen Life Coaching Success Stories That Prove Change Is Possible
 

Watch how two teens built confidence, found direction, and reconnected with what matters most.

 
 

Meet Erin & Chris

Parents of Four Teenagers and Teen Life Coaches That Care As Much as You Do

 

We are Erin and Chris. As Teen Life Coaches, we have been working together for many years now in both our personal and professional lives. We also have four teenagers (19, 18, 13, 13). Through our experiences as parents and life coaches, we know what it is like to raise teenagers in this crazy world. We want to use our experiences to help you raise your teenager as well as support you along the way.

As Teen Life Coaches, we have worked with over 1,000 teens and young adults in the last 15+ years. Our unique and signature coaching styles allow each of us to be uniquely ourselves while creating a powerful program called "Extraordinary Purpose" that provides teens with the heart of what we do, which is connecting teens with their true potential and purpose. When teens connect with these most important things, they can accomplish anything.

We build trust quickly with the teens we coach. We give them back the confidence they once had in themselves. We provide them with the skills to deal with challenges, eliminate distractions, and take action toward an incredible future.

When you book a Discovery Call, you will be speaking directly with either of us. To us, "Extraordinary Purpose" is about building relationships with you, providing you with the best information to support you in supporting your teen to succeed.

aster life coaches Erin and Chris, two of the most motivating, heartfelt, and successful coaches for teens, inspiring personal growth and lasting transformation.
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