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Teen Life Coaching with Erin & Chris — Guiding Your Teen from Stuck and Struggling to Confident, Motivated, and Thriving

 

When Your Teen Feels Lost, Unmotivated, or Shut Down—Our Coaching Helps Them Find Confidence, Clarity, and a Future They’re Excited About

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You’re Not Alone — A Life Coach for Teens Can Help Your Teen Reconnect, Thrive, and Discover Who They Truly Are

 

Being a parent of a teen today can feel overwhelming. Between phones, video games, anxiety, and constant pressure, it’s easy to wonder if your child is drifting further away—from you, from their confidence, and from their future.

But it doesn’t have to stay this way.

At Extraordinary Purpose, our life coaching program for teens goes beyond coping—it helps your teen come alive. With compassionate guidance, structure, and an empowering environment, we help them:

  • Discover their values, passions, and strengths

  • Build confidence and healthy relationships

  • Find clarity about their goals and future

  • Step into the best version of themselves

This is more than support. This is transformation. It’s where your teen rediscovers their spark, reconnects with what matters, and begins moving forward with purpose and joy—while we walk alongside you every step of the way.

 

Smiling and confident young woman who completed the Extraordinary Purpose Life Coaching program for teens, now living with passion, purpose, and a positive lifestyle

Why Even the Best Parenting Isn’t Enough —

And How a Life Coach for Teens Can Help

 

If you’re reading this, you’re probably a parent who loves their teen more than anything, but lately, things have felt… harder.

  • You’ve seen them lose motivation and struggle to follow through.

  • Their confidence seems to have faded, and you can’t seem to reach them.

  • They’re pulled in a thousand directions by social media, friends, and distractions.

  • They avoid important conversations — or they shut down entirely.

  • You’ve tried encouragement, rules, consequences… and you’re still worried.

You’re not alone. And you don’t have to figure this out alone.

een boy looking down in despair, searching for a supportive environment to rediscover his motivation, passion, and sense of purpose in life.
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The 3 Pillars of Extraordinary Purpose Teen Coaching

 

Parenting a teen today isn’t easy. Between pressures, distractions, and emotional ups and downs, it can feel like your child is slipping away. Extraordinary Purpose coaching goes beyond “fixing” behavior—it helps teens discover who they are, build confidence, and step into a brighter, more empowered future.

Pillar 1: Discovering Who They Are

 

Teens often struggle to understand what makes them unique. We guide them to uncover their passions, talents, values, and goals—their one-of-a-kind identity. This builds confidence and motivation, helping them see their potential and the kind of future they can create.

Pillar 2: Creating a Vision for Their Future

 

Instead of feeling lost or unmotivated, your teen will begin to imagine a future that excites them. Together, we create meaningful goals in areas like school, friendships, personal growth, and health. This clear vision helps them stay motivated and make better choices every day.

 Pillar 3: Becoming Their Empowered Self

 

We help teens step into their Empowered Identity—the best version of themselves who shows up with confidence, focus, and motivation. With the right tools, rituals, and strategies, they learn to overcome distractions, improve relationships, earn better grades, and take consistent action toward their goals.

 Why It Works:

 

Our teen life coaching program isn’t about telling your child what to do. It’s about empowering them to take ownership of their choices, discover their strengths, and connect with their purpose—transforming not only their future but the energy and connection within your family.

Don’t Wait Another Day—Give Your Teen the Support, Confidence, and Direction They Need

Erin and Chris, life coaches for teens and young adults at Extraordinary Purpose, ready to support parents and families in helping their child find confidence and purpose

 What Your Teen Will Experience in Our Life Coaching Program

 

Every part of our program is designed to give your teen the structure, support, and inspiration they need to step into who they truly are. From one-on-one conversations to group accountability and family support, it’s a complete system that empowers them to stay motivated, build confidence, and begin shaping a future they’re excited about.

 

1:1 Coaching — A Space Just for Them

Your teen will have private sessions with us where they can talk openly—without judgment—about what’s really going on. This is their safe place to be fully seen, heard, and supported while discovering what matters most to them and who they want to become.

Weekly Small Group Check-Ins — Reset & Refocus

In our intimate group sessions, teens connect with others who “get it.” They celebrate wins, work through challenges, and set clear intentions for the week ahead. This isn’t just accountability—it’s a powerful community that reminds them they’re not alone and that every step forward matters.

The Extraordinary Purpose Course — Tools That Change Lives

Alongside coaching, they’ll dive into our proven course that offers fresh, practical, and inspiring tools each week. From building positive habits and focus to learning real-world skills, they’ll gain strategies they can put into action right away.

Unlimited Check-Ins — Support Between Sessions

Life doesn’t happen on a schedule. That’s why your teen can reach out anytime in between sessions. Whether they need encouragement, guidance, or just a reminder of what they’re capable of, they’ll never have to feel stuck or alone.

Parent Support & Alliance — You’re Part of the Journey Too

We know that real change happens when parents feel supported as well. That’s why we partner with you along the way—keeping you informed, aligned, and equipped to encourage your teen without adding pressure. Together, we create a foundation of trust, connection, and growth.

Walking Beside Them Every Step

As parents ourselves, we know how much it matters to have someone in your child’s corner who believes in them fully. We show up every week—not just as coaches, but as mentors who see their potential, challenge them to grow, and celebrate every breakthrough along the way.

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A Parent’s Recent Experience with Extraordinary Purpose Life Coaching for Teens

 

"When we first connected with Erin and Chris, my daughter was struggling in so many ways. Her self-esteem was low, she had trouble making friends, and her confidence was almost non-existent. On top of that, our relationship at home had become strained—we felt like we were losing her and didn’t know how to help.

The Extraordinary Purpose life coaching for teens program changed everything. Through the coaching sessions and the tools Erin and Chris provided, my daughter started to believe in herself again. She became more confident, more open to making friendships, and she even began sharing her thoughts and feelings with us at home.

As a mom, it has been amazing to see our relationship transform—we laugh, we talk, and we feel connected again. This life coaching program has been such a gift, not only for my daughter but for our whole family. If you’re looking for a life coach for teens who can truly help your child find confidence and purpose, Erin and Chris are the ones.”

— Jennifer, Mom of a Isabella

Teen Testimonial: Meet Izzie - Age 17

 

"Before I started the Extraordinary Purpose life coaching program, I was hooked on my phone and social media. I spent endless hours scrolling and felt stuck, unmotivated, and totally lost. Erin and Chris helped me learn how to navigate my distractions and become more present so that I could build new habits—starting with a morning routine. I now begin each day with goals and a plan to achieve them. The program helped me see who I really am, what's important to me, and what kind of life I want to create after high school. I now feel more focused, confident, and excited about my future"
— Izzie M. 

Teen Testimonial: Meet Matteo - Age 16

 

"Being a part of this amazing program has been life changing. Erin and Chris are two amazing people who have truly had an influence on my life. They both put in so much work for us young adults to have a great life and teach us great habits to apply to our lives. You can feel the passion they have for this through all the sessions. In the 1 on 1 sessions, I have learned so much about myself and many new habits I can use on a daily basis. I always look forward to those calls every single week as I know I am going to learn something new. Every Sunday, I always have a great time in the group sessions, learning many new things and reflecting on my week. Huge shoutout to Erin and Chris, they are truly great people who will listen to anything you have to say and help you. I think this program is great and I'm looking forward to seeing what the future brings with this coaching."

Teen Testimonial: Meet Kai - Age 17 

 

"I went through the Extraordinary Purpose Coaching Program a few months ago and I’m so happy my mom talked me into it. At first, I didn’t think I needed life coaching, but eventually I realized it wasn’t about needing it, I began to love learning more about myself, gaining more confidence on the court with basketball, and getting clear about what I wanted for my future. Chris and Erin really pushed me and helped me become more responsible in all areas of my life. Before working with them I sort of thought I already knew everything, and now I know there is so much more to learn! Before I was anxious about what my future would look like, now I’m excited knowing I can create a future that is meaningful to me. I plan to continue my coaching with them for a while!" - Kai S.

Parent Testimonial: Meet Ellie - Age 15

 

"My husband and I were recommended to Erin and Chris through a parent support Facebook group. Despite being an amazing girl, our daughter (Ellie) was struggling with making friends at her new school, depression, and low self-confidence. When we first met Erin and Chris we could immediately tell they cared deeply about helping not just Ellie (but us as well). They spoke about specific ways in which they were going to help Ellie discover and see her true potential, and create an identity that would help her change the outcome of her days and life. After the very first week, Ellie had already changed-up her morning routine, and was beginning to implement some of the strategies that she was learning. We must also add that she loves the Teen coaching group that she is a part of. She typically leaves it feeling more motivated, accountable, and always has a plan written down for the week ahead. Needless to say, we couldn't more happy with the results, and consider Extraordinary Purpose Life Coaching for Teens (and Erin and Chris) a big part of our team moving forward.  - Desiree L.  

Parent Testimonial: Meet Jasper - Age 17 

 
"Our 17 year old son Jasper was diagnosed with ADHD when he was twelve and at sixteen his symptoms seemed to be getting worse. This significantly affected his confidence, ability to focus on one thing at a time, his grades in school, and our relationship with him was falling apart. I felt like all I did was remind him of what he was doing wrong. We discovered the Extraordinary Purpose Coaching  Program for Teens through a friend of ours who’s daughter had worked with Chris and Erin. Jasper completely came to life about three weeks into the program. He particularly seemed to enjoy the group experience and being around many young adults going through similar challenges, and having similar goals. As parents we will add that we were able to observe the many habits that Jasper began to implement, including his sleep schedule and morning routine - which made us so happy! Jasper also learned how to navigate his ADHD and learn how and where to overcome distractions and focus. Jasper also became really close with one of his assigned mentors during the program, who he is now close friends with and stays in touch with about their personal development. We are so glad that we found Erin and Chris and consider them to be resources not just for Jasper - but for our entire family!" - Marcy C.

Teen Testimonial: Meet Mhina -  Age 16

 

"I’m a teenager who started this course/program back in March of this year. I started this my junior year while I was in the transition of transferring schools right before my senior year. This course has helped me significantly with getting in touch with not only my higher future self and who I’m destined to be, but also with my spiritual self. The one on one engagement with the coaches and instructors really encourages you to not only get out of your comfort zone but do a deep analyzation of your internal and external environments to help motivate your self and push yourself towards future success. The course helps with meditation, motivation, perseverance, organization, mind focus, and present focus. I would 10/10 recommend seeing and working with Chris and Erin in the future due to their kindness, patience and professionalism." - Mhina J. 

Parent Testimonial: Meet Sophie - Age 15

 

 "My daughter and I were always close, but as she developed into adolescence we began to grow apart, and I just couldn’t reach her like I used to. She was losing the confidence she always had, her grades were slipping, and she just seemed down a lot of the time. I’m so grateful Chris and Erin helped Sophie create a vision and direction for what she wanted life to look and feel like after high school. From that vision she created goals for herself, and learning to limit her distractions she was able to really work towards them. The main thing is that Sophie was excited again, almost childlike, laughing and expressing herself with confidence, and because she worked on her relationships with Chris and Erin, she and I bonded again in a new way."  - Elizabeth M. 

Parent Testimonial: Meet Ryan - Age 17

 

 "My husband and I are so happy to have found the Extraordinary Purpose Coaching Program for Teens, because what a positive difference it has made in our son's life (and ours for that matter). We reached out to Erin and Chris about 4 months ago because Ryan was really struggling. He had no energy or motivation and his emotional wellbeing was suffering. He had very unhealthy habits (he was vaping and addicted to his phone), and spending all of his time with his friends. Through the 1:1 and group coaching Ryan learned a lot more about himself, started feeling better about himself and his future, began reconnecting with some of his interests, and began implementing positive habits. We can honestly say that Ryan is now much more motivated, has set some goals for himself, and is more confident in himself, which makes us parents extremely happy." - Mary and Steven L. 

Parent Testimonial: Meet Stefan - Age 16

 

 "When we were looking for some guidance and support for our son, the Extraordinary Purpose Life Coaching Program for Teens jumped off the page because of how closely it resonated with the things Stefan was struggling with. He had become constantly distracted by his phone and friends, lost all motivation, and a once confident kid now had no self-esteem. As a result his grades were suffering, he was making bad choices, and his relationship with us was suffering. After about 1-month in the program, Stefan began to come to life. He was finding his interest in things again, learning new habits, and getting clear on some of his short-term goals. He absolutely loved working with Erin and Chris, as well as being a part of the Teen group. What an amazing program, coaches, and environment - we are so happy we found them!"  - Mary P. 

Parent Testimonial: Meet Luke - Age 14

 "We were referred to Erin and Chris from an online parent  group that I am in. Our son Luke was showing signs of anxiety and depression, and was losing interest in school, which was causing his grades to suffer. Additionally he was completely addicted to his phone and video games, often isolating himself from his parents (and sister), and no longer doing things that he enjoys (like sports and music). We are very happy to report that the Extraordinary Purpose Program for Teens helped Luke learn some very effective habits, put some goals in place, and begin to do things again that he enjoyed. Overall his motivation and confidence is much higher which has a made a huge difference. Highly recommend this for any Teenager trying to find their way." -  Beth B.     

Teen Testimonial: Meet William -  Age 15

 

“I am really enjoying the Extraordinary Purpose Coaching for Teens program. My parents signed me up a few months ago because I struggle with stress and anxiety with school, making friends, and not having confidence. At first I didn’t want to do it, but after talking with Chris, he helped me see how coaching could help me accomplish my goals. My favorite part of coaching has been all of the rituals that I have learned, as well as the Sunday group meetings, which always help me have a productive week. I am much more focused and productive now, and my confidence has been getting so much better. I also have some ideas for my future which I am really excited about. I think this is a good idea for any teen trying to figure things out.” - William R. 

Teen Life Coaching Success Stories That Prove Change Is Possible
 

Watch how two teens built confidence, found direction, and reconnected with what matters most.

 
 

Meet Erin & Chris

Parents of 4 Teens and Life Coaches for Teens Who Care as Much as You Do

 

We’re Erin and Chris — passionate teen life coaches, partners in life and work, and proud parents of four amazing kids (two 17-year-olds and two 12-year-olds). We know firsthand the challenges and joys of raising teens in today’s world, and we’ve dedicated our lives to helping parents and teens navigate this journey together.

Over the past 15+ years, we’ve coached thousands of teens and young adults, blending our unique styles to create Extraordinary Purpose — a program built from the heart, grounded in proven strategies, and fueled by one core belief: when a teen connects with their purpose, anything is possible.

We’re known for building deep trust with teens, helping them believe in themselves again, and giving them the tools to handle challenges, cut through distractions, and take real steps toward a bright future.

When you schedule a Discovery Call, you’ll talk directly with one of us — because we believe this isn’t just a program, it’s a partnership. We’re in this with you, and we can’t wait to help your teen thrive.

aster life coaches Erin and Chris, two of the most motivating, heartfelt, and successful coaches for teens, inspiring personal growth and lasting transformation.
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Questions Parents Are Asking About Life Coaching for Teens — And Why It Might Be the Support Your Child Needs Right Now

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