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Life Coaching for Teens & High School Students
Help Them Discover Who They Are. And Believe in Themselves Again.
Many teens today feel disconnected from themselves, distracted from what's important, and unsure about their future.
At Extraordinary Purpose, we help teens become more confident, focused, and motivated by helping them reconnect with who they are, create direction for their future, and become the best version of themselves.
Because lasting change doesn't start with behavior.
It starts with identity.
Ages 13-17 • 20+ Years Supporting Teens & Families
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 If Your Teen Feels Distracted, Unmotivated, or Like You're Slowly Losing Them...
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Maybe you barely recognize the version of your teen you're seeing right now.
And no matter what you've tried... nothing seems to change.
Maybe your teen is:
âś” Constantly on their phone, gaming, or scrolling
âś” Struggling with motivation, focus, or follow-through
âś” Losing confidence in themselves
âś” Pulling away from family, goals, or responsibilities
And underneath it all, you can feel it.
They've lost their confidence. Their curiosity. Their sense of direction.
We've learned something after working with teens and families for more than 20 years:
When teens lose connection to who they are and where they're headed, distractions take over.
And that's exactly what we help them change.
 Distractions Aren't the Real Problem
Phones.
Gaming.
Social media.
Most parents think that's the problem.
And honestly, we understand why.
But after working with teens and families for more than 20 years, we've found those things are usually the symptom, not the root issue.
What's often missing is deeper:
✔ Identity → They've lost connection to who they are
✔ Direction → They don't feel excited about where they're headed
✔ Structure → They lack the habits and routines that create momentum
When teens lose confidence, purpose, and connection, distractions take over.
That's why we don't just help teens spend less time on their phones.
We help them reconnect with themselves.
Schedule your discovery call today!
The Extraordinary Purpose Framework
Discover Who You Are. Create Direction for Your Future. Become the Best Version of Yourself.
We've learned something after working with teens and families for more than 20 years:
When teens understand who they are and what matters to them, they make better choices.
 Pillar 1: Self-Discovery & Identity
Discover who you are.
âś” Explore their strengths, values, passions, and interests
âś” Become more grounded, mindful, and present
âś” Build confidence by reconnecting with themselves
Pillar 2: Direction & Purpose
Create a vision for your future.
âś” Set meaningful goals they actually care about
âś” Develop focus through purpose and direction
âś” Create a future they're excited about
 Pillar 3: Empowered Identity & Action
Become the best version of yourself.
âś” Build healthier habits, routines, and structure
âś” Spend less time lost in distractions and more time moving forward
âś” Develop discipline, follow-through, and self-trust
This Could Be the Turning Point
If your teen is struggling with confidence, motivation, focus, or direction, we'd love to learn more about what's going on and how we can help.
Schedule a complimentary discovery call with Erin or Chris and let's explore the best next steps together.
No pressure. Just honest support, real clarity, and a path forward.
Imagine Your Teen a Few Months From Now
More confident. More grounded. Moving forward.
Imagine Your Teen a Few Months From Now...
More confident. More grounded.
More connected to who they are.
And moving forward again.
Healthier, more focused, and more hopeful about their future.
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What Begins to Change
âś” Starts believing in themselves again
âś” Builds healthier habits and follow-through
âś” Spends less time lost in distractions and more time engaged with life
âś” Develops greater confidence, resilience, and self-trust
âś” Creates direction for their future
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What You Notice at Home
âś” Calmer, more open communication
âś” Less tension and emotional shutdown
âś” More responsibility and ownership
âś” Greater connection, confidence, and hope
This is what can happen when teens reconnect with who they are and what matters to them.
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What Parents Are Saying About Our Teen Life Coaching Program
Real stories from parents who felt worried, disconnected, and unsure how to help — until things finally started to change.
 “We finally felt like we had our daughter back.”
“When we first started working with Erin and Chris, our daughter’s confidence was at an all-time low. She was struggling socially, pulling away at home, and seemed completely disconnected from herself.
Through the Extraordinary Purpose Teen Coaching Program, she slowly started believing in herself again. She became more confident, made new friends, and started opening up to us in ways she hadn’t in a long time.
As parents, seeing that connection return has meant everything to our family.”
— Jennifer, Mom of Isabella
 “Our son is motivated and focused again.”
“Before coaching, our son was constantly distracted, unmotivated, and impossible to reach no matter what we tried.
Working with Extraordinary Purpose completely changed things. He’s more focused, communicative, confident, and motivated than we’ve seen in years. He’s setting goals for himself, following through, and carrying himself differently.
If you’re wondering whether teen life coaching can actually make a difference — it absolutely can.”
— Stacey, Mom of KevinÂ
 “This program gave our family hope again.”
“Our teenager was struggling with anxiety, low confidence, lack of motivation, and constant phone distraction. We felt like we were slowly losing connection with him.
What stood out about Extraordinary Purpose was that they didn’t just focus on behavior — they helped our son rebuild confidence, healthier routines, structure, and direction for his future.
Over time, we watched him become more grounded, responsible, motivated, and connected with our family again. The growth has been incredible to watch.”
— Melissa, Mom of Ethan
Hear Directly From Teens Inside the Program
Real stories from teens who rebuilt confidence, motivation, focus, and direction through coaching.
 Meet Erin Verdis & Chris Adang
Parents of Four Teenagers. Trusted Guides for Teens & Families.
We're Erin and Chris, founders of Extraordinary Purpose, parents of four teenagers, and life coaches who have spent more than 20 years helping teens, young adults, and families navigate confidence struggles, anxiety, distractions, family conflict, and uncertainty about the future.
And unlike many coaches, we're raising teenagers too.
We've learned that most teens don't need more pressure.
They need help reconnecting with who they are, what matters to them, and who they're capable of becoming.
That's why our coaching focuses on identity, confidence, direction, emotional resilience, healthy habits, and helping teens become the best version of themselves.
Erin holds degrees in Psychology and Human Development and has spent more than 15 years helping young people build confidence, self-worth, emotional resilience, and the courage to trust themselves.
Chris brings a unique background in mentoring, leadership, career development, and personal growth, helping young people discover their strengths, create meaningful direction, and step into their potential.
Together, we've helped thousands of young people become more confident, focused, resilient, and hopeful about their future.
Because when teens understand who they are and what matters to them, they make better choices.
And when that happens, everything begins to change.
