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Summer Coaching for Teens Who Feel Stuck, Distracted, or Like They’ve Lost Their Spark

 

This summer is a window to reset. We help teens break free from constant distractions, rediscover what drives them, and build confidence, structure, and real momentum—while helping you reconnect at home.

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If Your Teen Feels Glued to Their Phone, Unmotivated, or Like You’re Losing Them…

You’ve tried talking. Encouraging. Giving space.
And somehow… it still feels like nothing is working.

Right now, your teen might be:

âś” Spending hours on their phone, gaming, or scrolling
âś” Avoiding schoolwork, responsibilities, or anything uncomfortable
✔ Lacking motivation—even for things they used to care about
âś” Making poor choices or drifting in the wrong direction
✔ Struggling socially—or isolating themselves completely
✔ Barely talking to you… or pushing you away

And the hardest part?
You can feel it…

They’ve lost their spark.

The curiosity. The drive. The version of them that used to care.

This isn’t just a phase.
And it’s not something they simply grow out of.

When a teen lacks direction, identity, and structure…
distractions take over.

👉 If this feels familiar, you’re in the right place. 

 Distractions Aren’t the Problem… They’re the Symptom

Phones. Gaming. Social media.
That’s not the real issue. 

 What most parents try:
Take away the phone
Limit gaming
Push harder on school

What actually happens:
More resistance
More shutdown
More disconnection

What’s really going on:


✔ No identity → they don’t know who they are
✔ No direction → nothing they’re working toward
✔ No structure → no system to follow through

Distractions fill the gap.

Not more pressure…
a different approach 

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 How We Help Teens Rebuild Their Confidence, Direction, and Drive

This isn’t about forcing change. It’s about helping your teen rediscover who they are—and building a life around it.

Our proven framework is built on three simple pillars that create lasting change.

Pillar 1: Self-Discovery (Finding Their Spark)

Most teens today are disconnected from who they are—
so they default to distractions.

We help them:
âś” Identify their strengths
âś” Explore interests and passions
âś” Reconnect with what actually excites them

 This is where their spark comes back.

 Pillar 2: Future Vision & Direction

Without something to move toward…
motivation disappears.

We help them:
âś” Create a clear vision for their future
âś” Set meaningful, realistic goals
âś” Build direction they actually care about

 This is what makes motivation natural again.

 

Pillar 3: Empowered Identity & Rituals

Spark without structure doesn’t last.

We help them:
âś” Reduce phone and distraction dependency
âś” Build simple daily routines
âś” Create discipline and follow-through

 This is how they build real momentum.

 

Why the 3 Pillars Work

When teens understand who they are, where they’re going, and how to take action, real change begins to stick.

How We Help Teens Break Free from Distractions and Start Moving Forward

1:1 Coaching

Personalized weekly support

âś” Confidence + clarity
âś” Real challenges
âś” Accountability

→ They show up differently

Group Accountability

Structure + momentum

âś” Weekly check-ins
âś” Peer support
âś” Consistency

→ They follow through

Unlimited Support

Guidance when it matters

âś” Between sessions
âś” Through setbacks
âś” Ongoing direction

→ They stay on track

Coaching Course

Tools for real life

âś” Identity + habits
âś” Focus + discipline
âś” Life skills

→ Growth that lasts

This isn’t random advice or one-off sessions.
It’s a system designed to create momentum—week by week.

Talk with us about your teen

How We Help Teens Break Free from Distractions and Start Moving Forward

A simple, structured system designed to help your teen follow through, stay focused, and start showing up differently—week by week

1:1 Coaching

Personalized support every week

âś” Build confidence and self-awareness
âś” Work through real challenges
âś” Stay accountable

→ They start showing up differently

Small Group Accountability

Structure + positive peer environment

âś” Weekly check-ins
âś” Shared momentum
âś” Consistency that sticks

→ They follow through more consistently

Unlimited Support

Guidance when it matters most

âś” Real-time coaching between sessions
âś” Support through setbacks
âś” Ongoing direction

→ They don’t fall off track

Teen Coaching Course

Tools for life—not just quick fixes

âś” Identity, habits, and mindset
âś” Focus and discipline
âś” Real-world life skills

→ Growth that actually lasts

 This isn’t random advice or one-off sessions.
It’s a system designed to create momentum—week by week.

👉 And over time… everything starts to shift.

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Support Your Teen With Confidence, Clarity & the Right Guidance


Reach out to us toady to explore whether teen life coaching is the right fit for your family.

Erin and Chris, life coaches for teens and young adults at Extraordinary Purpose, ready to support parents and families in helping their child find confidence and purpose

Imagine Your Teen a Few Months From Now

More confident. More grounded. Moving forward.

 

What Changes for Your Teen

 

Believes in themselves again

Feels steadier through daily routines

Manages emotions with more confidence

Focuses on what truly matters

Lets go of self-doubt and comparison

Builds healthy, values-aligned friendships

What You Notice at Home

 

Calmer, more open conversations

More thoughtful choices

Growing pride and self-respect

Excitement about who they’re becoming

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What Parents Are Saying About Teen Life Coaching

"Initially when I met with Erin and Chris, my daughter's self-confidence was at an all time low. My daughter had trouble making friends and our relationship at home felt disconnected.

Extraordinary Purpose Teen Coaching Program changed every thing. She once again believed in herself, made new friends, and began sharing things with us again.

As a mom, it has been amazing to see her build her confidence and also have our connection return. This program has really been a blessing for our entire family."

— Jennifer, Mom of Isabella

 

 

"Prior to coaching my teenager was extremely unmotivated and would be constantly distracted and we could never seem to reach him regardless of what we tried. Working with Extraordinary Purpose was a total game changer. He now is much more confident, focused and even talks to us now! He is setting his own goals, meeting those goals and you can just tell by how he carries himself there is a big difference in how he is doing since working with this program.

If your are a parent wondering if a life coach for teenagers will make a difference - let me tell you they do. This program has helped my son connect with himself again and believe in himself again."

- Stacey, Mom of Kevin

 

 

Meet Erin Verdis & Chris Adang

Parents of Four Teenagers. Trusted Life Coaches for Teens and Families.

We’re Erin and Chris—certified teen life coaches, parents of four teenagers (19, 18, 14, and 14), and the founders of Extraordinary Purpose.

We don’t just coach teens.
We’re raising them, too.

With over 15 years of experience and more than 1,000 teens and young adults coached, we’ve supported families through some of the most challenging seasons—low motivation, constant distraction, anxiety, disconnection, and uncertainty about the future.

We understand how overwhelming this can feel—
for your teen and for you.

Our approach is grounded in a simple belief:

When a teen understands who they are, what matters to them, and how to take consistent action—everything begins to change.

We meet teens where they are and build trust first. From there, we help them:

âś” Build real confidence and self-trust
âś” Clarify their values, goals, and direction
âś” Develop focus, habits, and follow-through
âś” Navigate challenges without shutting down

Families often tell us the biggest shift isn’t just behavior—
it’s how quickly their teen opens up.

When teens feel seen and respected,
confidence returns—and momentum follows.

When you book a Discovery Call, you’ll speak directly with one of us.

We support both your teen and you—
because you don’t have to navigate this alone. 

Erin and Chris Verdis, teen life coaches and parents of four teenagers
Talk With Us About Your Teen

Free call. No pressure. Just a conversation about what’s going on and how we can help.

Teen Testimonial: Meet Izzie - Age 17

 

"Before I started the Extraordinary Purpose life coaching program, I was hooked on my phone and social media. I spent endless hours scrolling and felt stuck, unmotivated, and totally lost. Erin and Chris helped me learn how to navigate my distractions and become more present so that I could build new habits—starting with a morning routine. I now begin each day with goals and a plan to achieve them. The program helped me see who I really am, what's important to me, and what kind of life I want to create after high school. I now feel more focused, confident, and excited about my future"
— Izzie M. 

Teen Testimonial: Meet Matteo - Age 16

 

"Being a part of this amazing program has been life changing. Erin and Chris are two amazing people who have truly had an influence on my life. They both put in so much work for us young adults to have a great life and teach us great habits to apply to our lives. You can feel the passion they have for this through all the sessions. In the 1 on 1 sessions, I have learned so much about myself and many new habits I can use on a daily basis. I always look forward to those calls every single week as I know I am going to learn something new. Every Sunday, I always have a great time in the group sessions, learning many new things and reflecting on my week. Huge shoutout to Erin and Chris, they are truly great people who will listen to anything you have to say and help you. I think this program is great and I'm looking forward to seeing what the future brings with this coaching."

Teen Testimonial: Meet Kai - Age 17 

 

"I went through the Extraordinary Purpose Coaching Program a few months ago and I’m so happy my mom talked me into it. At first, I didn’t think I needed life coaching, but eventually I realized it wasn’t about needing it, I began to love learning more about myself, gaining more confidence on the court with basketball, and getting clear about what I wanted for my future. Chris and Erin really pushed me and helped me become more responsible in all areas of my life. Before working with them I sort of thought I already knew everything, and now I know there is so much more to learn! Before I was anxious about what my future would look like, now I’m excited knowing I can create a future that is meaningful to me. I plan to continue my coaching with them for a while!" - Kai S.

Parent Testimonial: Meet Ellie - Age 15

 

"My husband and I were recommended to Erin and Chris through a parent support Facebook group. Despite being an amazing girl, our daughter (Ellie) was struggling with making friends at her new school, depression, and low self-confidence. When we first met Erin and Chris we could immediately tell they cared deeply about helping not just Ellie (but us as well). They spoke about specific ways in which they were going to help Ellie discover and see her true potential, and create an identity that would help her change the outcome of her days and life. After the very first week, Ellie had already changed-up her morning routine, and was beginning to implement some of the strategies that she was learning. We must also add that she loves the Teen coaching group that she is a part of. She typically leaves it feeling more motivated, accountable, and always has a plan written down for the week ahead. Needless to say, we couldn't more happy with the results, and consider Extraordinary Purpose Life Coaching for Teens (and Erin and Chris) a big part of our team moving forward.  - Desiree L.  

Parent Testimonial: Meet Jasper - Age 17 

 
"Our 17 year old son Jasper was diagnosed with ADHD when he was twelve and at sixteen his symptoms seemed to be getting worse. This significantly affected his confidence, ability to focus on one thing at a time, his grades in school, and our relationship with him was falling apart. I felt like all I did was remind him of what he was doing wrong. We discovered the Extraordinary Purpose Coaching  Program for Teens through a friend of ours who’s daughter had worked with Chris and Erin. Jasper completely came to life about three weeks into the program. He particularly seemed to enjoy the group experience and being around many young adults going through similar challenges, and having similar goals. As parents we will add that we were able to observe the many habits that Jasper began to implement, including his sleep schedule and morning routine - which made us so happy! Jasper also learned how to navigate his ADHD and learn how and where to overcome distractions and focus. Jasper also became really close with one of his assigned mentors during the program, who he is now close friends with and stays in touch with about their personal development. We are so glad that we found Erin and Chris and consider them to be resources not just for Jasper - but for our entire family!" - Marcy C.

Teen Testimonial: Meet Mhina -  Age 16

 

"I’m a teenager who started this course/program back in March of this year. I started this my junior year while I was in the transition of transferring schools right before my senior year. This course has helped me significantly with getting in touch with not only my higher future self and who I’m destined to be, but also with my spiritual self. The one on one engagement with the coaches and instructors really encourages you to not only get out of your comfort zone but do a deep analyzation of your internal and external environments to help motivate your self and push yourself towards future success. The course helps with meditation, motivation, perseverance, organization, mind focus, and present focus. I would 10/10 recommend seeing and working with Chris and Erin in the future due to their kindness, patience and professionalism." - Mhina J. 

Parent Testimonial: Meet Sophie - Age 15

 

 "My daughter and I were always close, but as she developed into adolescence we began to grow apart, and I just couldn’t reach her like I used to. She was losing the confidence she always had, her grades were slipping, and she just seemed down a lot of the time. I’m so grateful Chris and Erin helped Sophie create a vision and direction for what she wanted life to look and feel like after high school. From that vision she created goals for herself, and learning to limit her distractions she was able to really work towards them. The main thing is that Sophie was excited again, almost childlike, laughing and expressing herself with confidence, and because she worked on her relationships with Chris and Erin, she and I bonded again in a new way."  - Elizabeth M. 

Parent Testimonial: Meet Ryan - Age 17

 

 "My husband and I are so happy to have found the Extraordinary Purpose Coaching Program for Teens, because what a positive difference it has made in our son's life (and ours for that matter). We reached out to Erin and Chris about 4 months ago because Ryan was really struggling. He had no energy or motivation and his emotional wellbeing was suffering. He had very unhealthy habits (he was vaping and addicted to his phone), and spending all of his time with his friends. Through the 1:1 and group coaching Ryan learned a lot more about himself, started feeling better about himself and his future, began reconnecting with some of his interests, and began implementing positive habits. We can honestly say that Ryan is now much more motivated, has set some goals for himself, and is more confident in himself, which makes us parents extremely happy." - Mary and Steven L. 

Parent Testimonial: Meet Stefan - Age 16

 

 "When we were looking for some guidance and support for our son, the Extraordinary Purpose Life Coaching Program for Teens jumped off the page because of how closely it resonated with the things Stefan was struggling with. He had become constantly distracted by his phone and friends, lost all motivation, and a once confident kid now had no self-esteem. As a result his grades were suffering, he was making bad choices, and his relationship with us was suffering. After about 1-month in the program, Stefan began to come to life. He was finding his interest in things again, learning new habits, and getting clear on some of his short-term goals. He absolutely loved working with Erin and Chris, as well as being a part of the Teen group. What an amazing program, coaches, and environment - we are so happy we found them!"  - Mary P. 

Parent Testimonial: Meet Luke - Age 14

 "We were referred to Erin and Chris from an online parent  group that I am in. Our son Luke was showing signs of anxiety and depression, and was losing interest in school, which was causing his grades to suffer. Additionally he was completely addicted to his phone and video games, often isolating himself from his parents (and sister), and no longer doing things that he enjoys (like sports and music). We are very happy to report that the Extraordinary Purpose Program for Teens helped Luke learn some very effective habits, put some goals in place, and begin to do things again that he enjoyed. Overall his motivation and confidence is much higher which has a made a huge difference. Highly recommend this for any Teenager trying to find their way." -  Beth B.     

Teen Testimonial: Meet William -  Age 15

 

“I am really enjoying the Extraordinary Purpose Coaching for Teens program. My parents signed me up a few months ago because I struggle with stress and anxiety with school, making friends, and not having confidence. At first I didn’t want to do it, but after talking with Chris, he helped me see how coaching could help me accomplish my goals. My favorite part of coaching has been all of the rituals that I have learned, as well as the Sunday group meetings, which always help me have a productive week. I am much more focused and productive now, and my confidence has been getting so much better. I also have some ideas for my future which I am really excited about. I think this is a good idea for any teen trying to figure things out.” - William R. 

Teen Life Coaching Success Stories That Prove Change Is Possible
 

Watch how two teens built confidence, found direction, and reconnected with what matters most.

 
 

Questions Parents Are Asking About Life Coaching for Teens — And Why It Might Be the Support Your Child Needs Right Now

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