“I felt so lost and anxious about what was next for me after college… now I have a clear vision and I’m genuinely excited about my future.”
— Mina, 21
If You’re a Parent of a Young Adult, This Might Feel Familiar…
This Is For You If Your Young Adult…
✔ Feels stuck, unmotivated, or unsure what to do next
✔ Is struggling with confidence, direction, or independence
✔ Feels overwhelmed by school, career, or life decisions
✔ Spends most of their time on their phone, gaming, or avoiding responsibility
✔ Starts things… but rarely follows through
✔ Has pulled away—and communication feels distant or strained
And you’re starting to wonder…
“Are they going to figure this out?”
Many of these challenges are explored more deeply in our latest insights and strategies on the Extraordinary Purpose Podcast.
Our Approach at Extraordinary Purpose
We don’t just coach your young adult. We help them build a foundation for life
Pillar 1: Self-Discovery
Everything changes when they start to understand who they are—
their values, strengths, and what truly matters to them.
✔ Gain clarity on their values, strengths, and identity
✔ Build self-awareness and confidence from within
✔ Begin making decisions aligned with who they truly are
Pillar 2: Future Vision & Goals
Direction replaces confusion when they have a clear vision—
and a path forward that actually feels exciting and achievable.
✔ Create a meaningful vision for their future
✔ Set clear, aligned goals they can follow through on
✔ Build momentum with structure and intentional action
Pillar 3: Empowered Identity & Rituals
This is where real transformation happens—
when they start showing up differently in their daily life.
✔ Build habits and routines that actually stick
✔ Reduce distractions (phones, social media, avoidance)
✔ Take ownership of their life, choices, and direction
This same foundation is also what we teach and expand on inside our life coaching for parents program—because when parents grow, everything in the home begins to shift
From Lost and Uncertain to Clear and Confident
“I came home from college feeling completely lost—unsure of who I was or what I wanted.
Through this program, I rebuilt my confidence, created structure in my life, and discovered my passion.
Now, I’m finishing my degree in NYC to become an interior designer—and I finally feel clear about my future.
This experience truly changed my life.”
— Sara W.
See What This Experience Looks Like in Real Life
A quick story from a young adult who came in feeling stuck—and found confidence, clarity, and direction.
What Parents Notice. What Young Adults Feel.
Real change isn’t forced.
It builds from within.
As clarity and confidence grow, everything starts to shift.
✔ More motivation and follow-through
✔ Increased confidence and independence
✔ Clearer direction for their future
✔ Healthier habits and routines
✔ Better communication at home
And most importantly…
A young adult who starts taking ownership of their life.
This is the same transformation we guide students through in our life coaching for teens program—building confidence, ownership, and direction early on.
“I used to struggle with social anxiety and kept to myself…
now I’ve found my confidence, my people, and my way forward—and I take action instead of overthinking.”
— Sunil
You can explore more real stories and experiences like this on our Extraordinary Purpose Podcast.
What’s Included to Help Your Young Adult Build Confidence, Direction, and Momentum
Personalized 1:1 Coaching
Weekly coaching sessions designed to help your young adult gain confidence, create direction, and take consistent action—with support that both understands and pushes them forward.
Unlimited Coach Support
Ongoing access between sessions for support, accountability, and direction—so they stay consistent, focused, and moving forward.
Small Group Accountability
Regular group check-ins designed to boost motivation, build accountability, and create a sense of connection with others on a similar path.
Extraordinary Purpose Course
Exclusive access to our signature course—designed to deepen mindset, build life skills, and support growth beyond coaching sessions.
This isn’t just coaching.
It’s a complete system for growth, structure, and direction.
→ Learn more about our full approach inside our coaching philosophy
Let’s Talk About What Support Could Look Like for Your Young Adult
Real Stories from Young Adults We’ve Worked With
These are the kinds of transformations we see when young adults begin to build confidence, clarity, and direction from the inside out.
How life coaching helped me go from feeling lost after college to having a clear plan
From social anxiety and isolation to confidence and real friendships
From phone addiction and family tension to clarity, habits, and stronger relationships
Meet Erin & Chris — Coaches Parents Trust With What Matters Most
Meet Erin Verdis & Chris Adang
Founders of Extraordinary Purpose
Erin Verdis and Chris Adang are life coaches for young adults, teens, and families—helping them navigate one of the most defining and often overwhelming seasons of life: the transition into adulthood.
For over 20 years, they’ve worked closely with young adults struggling with confidence, motivation, direction, and independence—alongside the parents who want to support them without pressure or conflict.
They’ve helped thousands of families move from frustration and uncertainty…
to clarity, confidence, and real momentum.
A Different Approach to Life Coaching for Young Adults
What sets Extraordinary Purpose apart is a relational, real-life approach to growth.
- Erin works primarily with young women—helping them build confidence, clarity, and self-expression in a safe, supportive space
- Chris works primarily with young men—developing responsibility, self-trust, and direction through honest, grounded coaching
Together, they lead coaching experiences that support not just the young adult—
but the environment they’re growing in.
The Philosophy Behind the Work
Young adults don’t need to be fixed.
They need structure, clarity, and the right support to grow.
Erin and Chris focus on building the internal skills that actually create lasting change:
✔ Confidence
✔ Accountability
✔ Decision-making
✔ Purpose
So young adults can move forward with independence, direction, and self-trust.
Common Questions from Parents of Young Adults—And How Life Coaching Can Help Your Child Find Confidence and Purpose
What is a life coach for young adults, and how does it help?
How do I know if my young adult child needs coaching?
Can this program help with career direction and job readiness?
What if my young adult is in college but still struggling?
My young adult is 25 (or 28 or 30) and still feels stuck—is it too late?
What kind of results can we expect from this coaching program?
How long does it take for my young adult to see results from life coaching?
What’s the difference between therapy and life coaching for young adults?
What if my young adult isn’t open to life coaching or feels like they don’t need it?
You Don’t Have to Watch Them Stay Stuck
You can see it…
They’re capable of more—but something isn’t clicking.
And it’s hard to know how to help without pushing too hard or creating more distance.
What’s Possible
With the right support, young adults begin to:
✔ Build real confidence
✔ Take ownership of their choices
✔ Create direction for their future
✔ Follow through and build momentum
Real Growth. Lasting Change.
Not pressure.
Not quick fixes.
Just the structure and support they need to move forward.
Ready to See This Shift in Your Young Adult?
👉 Schedule Your Discovery Call
If you’re not quite ready to schedule a call, you can start by exploring our approach and insights on the Extraordinary Purpose Podcast or learning more about how we support families through our life coaching for parents program.