The Extraordinary Purpose Podcast: Why Family Culture Might Be the Missing Piece in Your Parenting
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Welcome back, everybody, to another episode of the Extraordinary Purpose Podcast. My name is Chris, and—believe it or not—we had to restart this recording because I forgot to introduce Erin! Unreal, right? But let’s do this properly.
Sitting across from me is the absolutely mesmerizing, inspirational, extraordinary Erin Verus.
“Hello, Erin!”
“Hello, honey. Hey everyone. How’s it going today?”
We’re smiling big today because this really is our favorite time of the week—getting to connect with all of you parents who are showing up for yourselves and your teens and young adults. This podcast is about helping you become extraordinary parents by doing the deeper work on *yourself* first.
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What It Means to Show Up for Yourself as a Parent
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Erin: “We talk about this all the time—it’s not selfish to put yourself first. It’s essential. But because of how we were raised, many of us still struggle with that idea. We think we need to give 1000% to our kids, our jobs, our homes—and we forget about us. But when you fill your own cup, you’re a stronger, calmer, more present parent.”
Chris: “Exactly. We hear from parents every day who are overwhelmed, exhausted, and feel like they’re failing. But the truth is, you can’t pour from an empty cup. This episode is about reclaiming your energy, rebuilding connection, and creating a *family culture* that truly supports everyone in your home.”
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What Is Family Culture (and Why It Matters)
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Family culture is the heartbeat of your home—your shared purpose, values, and rhythms that make your family feel like a team. It’s what transforms chaos into connection.
Erin: “It’s like a workplace culture but for your home. Everyone has a role. Everyone’s contributions matter. It’s not about being perfect—it’s about creating an environment where each person feels seen, supported, and valued.”
Chris: “Exactly. And as parents, we’re the leaders of that culture. We set the tone and energy for how our family communicates, grows, and supports one another.”
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The 3 Pillars of a Strong Family Culture
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1. **Presence and Time Together**
- Be intentional about time together—family dinners, game nights, or simple daily check-ins.
- Erin: “We know it’s hard with teens who are busy, but even one dinner a week where everyone is present—no phones—makes a huge difference.”
- Chris: “Connection is a choice, and in a world full of distractions, it has to be intentional.”
2. **Contribution and Shared Responsibility**
- Erin: “It’s not about chores—it’s about helping your kids feel part of something bigger than themselves. Ask them how they want to contribute, based on their strengths.”
- Chris: “Leadership isn’t doing it all—it’s delegating, empowering, and giving your kids ownership. That’s how you raise confident, capable young adults.”
3. **Curiosity and Growth**
- Chris: “Curiosity fuels growth—for parents and for kids. Encourage trying new things as a family, exploring interests, and getting out of comfort zones.”
- Erin: “That’s what keeps your family culture alive and evolving—new experiences, laughter, and shared learning.”
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Practical Takeaway: Create Your Family Culture List
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Erin: “Grab a piece of paper and write down the things that matter to you as a parent. What do you want your home to feel like? Ours includes kindness, open communication, family time, nature, laughter, and self-responsibility. Once you have your list, share it with your family and let everyone add their own.”
Chris: “Start small. Don’t overthink it. The magic comes from the conversations and the shared purpose that grows from it.”
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Final Thoughts
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If your family has felt disconnected, creating a shared culture can bring everyone back together. It’s not about perfection—it’s about progress, purpose, and presence.
Erin: “Remember, this isn’t about control. It’s about connection. When everyone feels valued and seen, the energy in your home changes.”
Chris: “Exactly. So take a deep breath, start with one small step, and lead your home with love and intention.”
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